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Husbands for sale

A store that sells husbands has just opened, where a woman may go to choose a husband. Among the instructions at the entrance is a description of how the store operates. You may visit the store ONLY ONCE! There are six floors and the attributes of the men increase as the shopper ascends the flights. There is, however, a catch. You may choose any man from a particular floor, or you may choose to go up a floor, but you cannot go back down except to exit the building! So, a woman goes to the Husband Store to find a husband .

Family pornography destroys kids “My mum dresses up before me”!

I counselled a young guy who was addicted to masturbation. He told me he can’t do without masturbation. One thing that struck me in his confession was when he said, ‘my mum caused all this for me’. Curiosity got hold of me & I asked him, how? He said; He started masturbation since when he was 4 years old’; My mum has always been dressing up naked before me; I am used to seeing her nakedness. I am not moved to have sex with her but I always long to see mature ladies naked just the way I always see my mum dressing up naked before me. I still remember seeing her nakedness regularly till I was 8 years & my dad do shout on her, ‘send this boy out before you dress’, but my mum would always reply by saying, ‘will my son sleep with me? (Click here to pay for your copy of Good to Go and save your copy)

Lessons from Tory Lanez

If you don’t know who Tory Lanez is, it’s important you Google him now in other to flow with this post. Done? Let’s move on. The first song from Tory I listened to was; Say it. We all heard it around the same time Bryson Tiller’s Don’t was everywhere. Say it is a beautiful song, so is Luv. Tory’s second song I listened to. I really don’t know what genre of music Tory does, it feels like Hip hop but also feels like RnB and Luv almost feels like Reggae. To be honest, it doesn’t really matter what genre the songs are, what matters are the messages I seemed to pick out.

6 things to do when your relationship ends because of a cheating partner

 1. Cry. Crying doesn’t make you weak. Especially in this situation, you trusted someone and they broke that trust. You’re probably thinking “what does she have that I don’t?” So relieve yourself of all that burden, pain and grief and just cry, cry and cry some more. It is totally Okay. 2. Take things slow. I know you might want to retaliate or get back out there immediately. But that isn’t wise. Don’t let one experience push you to do something detrimental, so calm down. Everything you would want to do should be something you’re sure you won’t regret.

10 signs your relationship is dead

Five signs that your relationship is dead and gone and just waiting for you to bury it. 1. You are relieved when he calls to cancel a date, you never even wanted to go anyways so ‘yipee’. You would rather sleep all day than be coupled up with that guy. 2. You hardly go out anymore and even when you do, you two make plans to go to where you’d hardly say anything to each other. Even on the drive to the date you barely say 10 words to each other.

For women who don’t give a shit!

The society has set standards and pedestals for women that it can’t even reach. This has nothing to do with feminism but everything to do with double standards.  The prettiest people are the ones who have no fears. No fears of judgement or criticism and live their lives for them. Have you ever met a woman so brazen and uninhibited? One who immediately draws you into her mental space and sucks you into her soul that you’re left curious, wondering what really goes on in her head? Have you ever met a no-holds-barred woman who goes after what she wants, is successful in all she does and just does not give a shit. A woman can defend it when she says “there is a method to my madness”. If you have, then you know you will ALWAYS remember her. She is purely savage, she is proud but not a snob. She is not judgemental, she is fun and exciting and extremely sexy.

Female Genital Mutilation

Our eyes from birth are programmed to enjoy beauty, colours and appreciate nature. Why aren’t they plucked out as they are also prone to see evil and lead us into temptation without necessarily delivering us from the said evil? If that sounds ridiculous to pull off, why then are women physically deterred from enjoying one of the most beautiful things the human body has to offer? Female Genital Mutilation (FGM) otherwise referred to as circumcision, is the removal of some or all of the external female genitalia for non medical reasons. There are absolutely no health benefits for girls or women and is totally unnecessary. Female sexuality is said to be insatiable if the clitoris specifically is not removed. FGM is done as a means to prevent masturbation and is thought to ensure virginity, purity, modesty, beauty and fidelity. It is also said to heighten male sexual pleasure which is arrant nonsense because how would a man enjoy sex with a woman who doesn’t know what it feels like to be “horny” or “turned on” …