I counselled a young guy who was addicted to masturbation. He told me he can’t do without masturbation. One thing that struck me in his confession was when he said, ‘my mum caused all this for me’. Curiosity got hold of me & I asked him, how? He said; He started masturbation since when he was 4 years old’;
My mum has always been dressing up naked before me; I am used to seeing her nakedness. I am not moved to have sex with her but I always long to see mature ladies naked just the way I always see my mum dressing up naked before me. I still remember seeing her nakedness regularly till I was 8 years & my dad do shout on her, ‘send this boy out before you dress’, but my mum would always reply by saying, ‘will my son sleep with me? (Click here to pay for your copy of Good to Go and save your copy)
Stop planting evil thought in his heart’.
Anytime I see my mum’s naked body, I long to see ladies’ naked body. I then went into sex at age 10 and till now I am not free from sex & heavy pornography & masturbation…’
Dear parents, I hope you are not guilty of this?
You are dressing up before your 2 years son/daughter & you say he/she doesn’t know anything yet? That’s very cruel. Some couples will be having sex while their close to 2 years old child will be in their room with them & we feel, he can only see, he can’t understand.
Sir/Ma that your child does not need to understand.
Seeing your nakedness or seeing you and your spouse making love is enough to plant abnormal sexual fantasies and urge in that child. Remember, it is a jet world!
How will you destroy your own children with your own carelessness?
Don’t let your children see your nakedness. Don’t make love in the presence of your child no matter the age. The scene sticks to the memory& they may want to explore & experiment what they are seeing.
Stopping making free home-made ‘sex clips or video’ for your children to be watching.
Mummy, sit properly. Dress properly too. Stop sitting as if you are in the labour room; parting your legs for your son to see your inner tight & pant.
Daddy, don’t wear ordinary boxer at home that you sit down & your ‘thing’ is dangling & your daughter is seeing it. There are things you should not wear beyond your bedroom, just for your spouse. Don’t say because you want to enjoy your freedom in your house. It’s not your house alone, it’s a family house/home.
You are putting your children into sexual bondage through these acts.
Mummy, wearing ordinary bra around the house in the presence of your sons is dangerous.
Yes, they won’t lust after you but you might be messing up and increasing their curiosity to see the breasts of ladies out there.
Let’s stop being ‘pornographic materials’ to our children.
Raising sexually pure children, it begins at home’
This post was first published by Ifeanyi Nmetu
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